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From: Jean
Date: 29 Sep 2005
Time: 10:41:00 AM
I was only been skimming some of the posts here, so lack some of the information that I need about what is going on. In psycology there is a thing called psycological games. I lack the info to diagnose exactly what game has been going on, on this board. So I will go with a similar theory that is obvious. There are 4 positions that a person can be in. The one is out of any of the next 3 and I won't even go into it as it does not fit here. These positions are victum, rescuer and persecutor. We tend to fall into one of these catagories most of the time, but we can switch positions and often do when game playing. Mario presented himself as victum and so you all tried to rescue him. Better to be a rescuer than a victum or persecutor. But victums will switch and become persecutors to their rescuers. This is what I see happening here. The best thing to do is walk away now before it gets any worse. Mario is playing some thing maybe like "Everyone is out to get me". Now games and what has been going on is just that have 3 degrees. 1st degree is something you would tell your friends, 2nd degree is something that you hide from your friends and 3rd degree ends up in the courtroom, newspapers or the morgue. Mario will probably manage to get to 3rd degree, but you all don't need to, there is nothing you can do for him, so walk away. Save yourselves in other words.